Friday, March 25, 2011

Have you ever felt so worried you wanna cry?
Have you ever missed someone till it hurts?
Have you ever felt you are aching to hold the one you love?
Have you ever felt insecure?

I think being liberal is overrated.
People tend to be open to strangers easily.
People tend to be touchy with strangers.
The line between close friendships and causal friendships are blurred.
We give so easily and we get hurt easily.
Life.

Sometimes being traditional for a change shows some class in a certain sense.
The conscious effort to maintain the line between close and distance.
The way we talk, our body language and our speech.
It takes a mature person to understand the power of maintaining certain distances.
There are sensitivities to take into consideration.
Stepping too close could overstep culture sensitivities.
Talking too loosely or unthought body language
Can stem on certain temptations that others might be controlling.

Being open, I find is an excuse to be careless.
When that carelessness causes trouble, we cry and blame others.

If we are open yet we show others we are firm and not easily influenced.
I guess people are giving too much credit to "everyone is doing it"
Too much credit to "do it now, consequences later"
Too much credit to "I am who I am"

Gah life... its full of drawing lines and not overstepping them.
I guess this only comes with a certain maturity.
And the person will be really mature not to overstep these lines.

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